Sometimes when you have been in a relationship or marriage for a long time, your sex life can become a bit stale. I came across a lot of this when I worked for escorts in London. Some gents used to complain that their marriages had ended after their sex lives became boring. It may be true, but I think it is important to ensure that both of you take responsibility. Most of the gents that I dated at London escorts, seemed to think it was suppose to be the fault of the former wives. I don’t agree with that at all, and I think that gents should take some of the responsibility. After all, it takes two to make love.

Working at London escorts is a rather unique thing, and you meet lots of different people from all walks of life. One guy that I dated at escorts in London, ended up getting a divorce after he went out and bought his wife a package of plastic surgery. That was not a very smart thing to do, and a gift of a pair of new boobs, is more likely to upset your wife than to improve your sex life. After that, their marriage had really fallen into decline and they divorced a year later.

I also remember another gent I dated at escorts in London. He thought it was a good idea to arrange for a hedonistic holiday. They had never been on one before, so I don’t understand his thinking. I would not have been impressed, and neither was his wife. He told me the story during one of our dates at London escorts, and it did sound like he regretted it. Apparently, he had just told his wife that they were going to Jamaica, and that was it. Nothing was said about a hedonistic holiday, but that was their last holiday together.

Another gent who was a regular at escorts in London, arranged for him and his wife to go to a Swinger’s party. Once again, he did not tell her and just took her to a party. My friends and I at London escorts, laughed behind his back for a long time. It was not the thing to do at all, and it rather put his wife off him completely. A few weeks later she had thrown him out of the house, and he had lost his home and even part of his pension to this wife.

Men do such silly thing, and a lot of it comes down to that they are not very good communicators. If, they learned to talk, and listen, to their partners a bit better, they would understand what goes on in the female mind. I would love to say that things are going to change but I doubt. It is clear that women are from Venus and men are from Mars, and the two different alien species, are finding it difficult to communicate with each other. Maybe, we do after all speak totally different languages.…

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On your wedding night there is a lot of time spent in the bedroom, whether it is your first time with each other or the most special night of all. Remembering that night and what went on to make it special is the key to keeping your marriage healthy and satisfying for both people. Everything was new; it was special and sacred in a way, and that was what was great about it. After years of being together you seem to have done everything and now your love life seems a little dull, in life and in the bedroom.

Many people will tell you that counseling is needed, the two of you need to communicate your needs and desires. If your problems are that deep then perhaps it is something that should be considered, but you might want to try a few of these options first and see if one of these will help save your marriage as well as build upon what you already have.

Make the Time

Busy lives at home or work mean less time spent together and this causes relationships to shift, change and fall apart. You have to make time to talk, even if it is small stuff such as what you did at work or how your day went. But don’t leave the talking to just that, turn those conversations into something sultry and romantic at every opportunity. While working can leave you tired, a healthy sex life in the bedroom will perk you right up, in more ways than one. Don’t be afraid about talking about new things and perhaps even trying them out. Schedule a date night, with desert at the end so you are both satisfied and have the time to spend together.

Naughty or Nice

Sex is the biggest key to a marriage as well as a healthy living style. While there are plenty of different views out there on the topic, the better the sex in a marriage the less likely there will be a divorce. If you are constantly trying the same positions, or starting to get bored then it is time to spice it up and make a change. You can try some oils, flavored condoms, vibrators, all of which can be found in local drug stores. For a little more excitement you can visit a local adult themed shop and pick up some items that will enhance your foreplay and satisfy both people. A magazine that you can read together that outlines some sensual material can be a real turn on in a relationship, or pick up a porn video at a rental shop.

If you want to spice things out check out London escort.…

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